But I'm trying to determine how much of that behavior is truly down to his profession, and how much of it is him not being very into me or just selfish and unwilling to compromise even if that selfishness is a byproduct of his residency, and not how he would be in other circumstances. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. My Buddhist husband likes Mormons and even going to church. My dear faithful LDS aunt married a good non-member man. You see, I am the guy, and she is the established doctor dermatologist.
They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. Yes, I have considered alternatives. Sadly, the general consensus of "convert or nope out" sounds like what will end up happening. It all depends on the girl. As a matter of fact, you can begin here. I remember attending numerous priesthood meetings by myself and wishing dad were next to me. I appreciate my own space too, but it felt shitty to have this great time with him and not get so much as a text until we are making plans for next time. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds.
During "Netflix and chill" the other night, I noticed there was a documentary about mormons. We have family prayer every day and read the scriptures occasionally. But, as soon as the marriage happened, the Mormon spouse goes full on Orthodox and expects the non Mormon to comply. If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. Develop Your Own Curriculum. If you like your regular fix of alcohol or nicotine, then dating a Mormon probably isn't a good idea. My boyfriend and I moved in together when he started his fellowship last year.
I am becoming more lonely now than before. It is amazing how different values and outlooks, interpersonal relationships can be from family to family. Love is what we do, not what we feel. If after all these suggestions you're thinking "в But I really like her. I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this. There are over promises in the Bible. It's been really helpful already.