Follow the footnotes and you start to find the lies. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. If not, it's better to find out now than to continue with something that isn't satisfying you. Please think carefully before marrying with someone works in medical industry. We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it. Do you have a few suggestions for talking points I may want to bring up from stuff directly on LDS. I can only say that I was that girl, 10 years ago.
Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage. I didn't even believe. Her dad is a bishop Oh, I should clarify we're both in our late 20s and living independently from parents. I was off travelling the world when I met and fell madly in love with a deployed Marine. However, for me, there have been some perks too. That settles it for me. I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that.
I am so happy to have found this blog. I got to thinking about how I and others in my ward might react if a same sex couple attended church and how those views might WILL, fingers crossed change over the next decade. If you can't deliver it in person, put in an envelope and mail it to me. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. Be fruitful and multiply. I even had three kids in with me during a impromptu vaginal examination when I was preggo with my fourth. Lonely is an everyday thing. You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid.
You will always be second place. We are indeed in two different places. Again, though the evolving times may have brought about a relaxation in this rule, it is still followed by many youngsters. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. No one understands our lifestyle or how difficult it can be, not even my best friend and or family members no matter how hard they try to. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky. Sometimes it's easy to forget all the wonderful times we had together before he got into med school.