Their son grew up to become a temple president. Yes, because that is generally what is best. Observe the suttle loony behavior of the family during thanksgiving. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for.
Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right. My husband is more relaxed now - even with 14 hour days - and yes, I am starting to feel like he is "coming back". But it was frightening Toughen up if you're the doctors girl. Since a very young age, these girls have gazed at handsome paintings of Jesus and prophets, and learned to respect men who have spiritual confidence in their eyes.
There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. This is by design. The man I started dating 8 years ago, long before med school was in the picture, is disappearing before my very eyes. I have been married for 16 years to a cardiothoracic surgeon. Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful. The point to this story is that when he had any free time he wanted to spend it with me. It is hard work. Good Questions to Ask Someone.
Of course he invited me to come with him, but he is in the wedding, so I'll be sitting there watching him in the wedding on my 30th birthday weekend. She won't marry you. They are just really convinced they are right. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. It may change your relationship to them forever. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. Your email address will not be published. It won't be easy with the lower salary but it will be better than the alternative.